Monday, July 31, 2017

2017 August FROM MY PERSPECTIVE



                                                    2017 August FROM MY PERSPECTIVE

Brenduhh came over for some cold tea; it was a beastly hot day.  She wore as little as possible which would pass as legal.  She was hanging pictures in her house and kept missing the wooden boards behind the plaster leaving holes in it.  She didn't know what to do and asked me my suggestion.  I told her, "Go to the hardware store and ask for a stud finder.  This tool will help you a lot."  She thanked me and went on her merry way.  Later she returned with some perplexity.  "Trudy, I went into the hardware store and asked the 2 male assistants where I could locate some stud finders.  I don't know why they took so long answering me, smirked, sputtered in their reply, and tripped over themselves trying to walk down the aisle."  I asked her, "Did you go wearing what you have on now?"  She said she had.  I asked her if she got the stud finder tool.  She said she had, but one of the fellas asked her if she wanted him to come over to help her since she'd located a stud finder; she couldn't understand why he had asked that.   She, also, told me she’d told them, “I have a screw loose, too.”   I just rolled my eyes.

I had an opportunity to verbally annihilate someone who would have deserved every syllable I would have said to them, had I returned the verbal volley.  Instead, I chose to be totally silent with my response.  I quickly thought of how they could misquote me and accuse me of saying something threatening.  An opponent really can’t misquote a response of silence.  It really is a formidable weapon.  I shared this happening with a friend.  She jokingly said, “They did say something more offensive than that they hate to eat bacon, didn’t they?”  I told her, “Oh yes.  Bacon wasn’t even mentioned.  I did think of them in the original package, though.”

My Beloved was having difficulty getting up from his easy chair.   He had a few choice words as he struggled.  I said something he didn’t like and the “intense fellowship” was on.   When the mood cooled, I suggested we go shopping for one which is called “A Lifting Chair.”  He liked that idea and went with me.  We looked at many and finally found one which fit his 6’5”, 350 pound size.  He was very pleased.  The sales person mentioned it was electrical.  “Oh, so it’s an electric chair,” I commented and shot Beloved a look.  For some reason Beloved growled, “Wipe that smirk off your face, Tootsie.”  I couldn’t stop laughing. 

A single strand of spaghetti is called spaghetto.  I didn't know this, but then, again, who eats a single strand of spaghetti?   “Not I,” said the spaghetti slucker.

Shadow owes its birth to light. -John Gay, poet and dramatist (30 Jun 1685-1732)

Thanks to my dear friend, Melodie, for this morsel of fact…..”A “Buttload” is an actual measurement of volume - Equal to 126 gallons.”  I have seen examples of larger and smaller volumes of this.  I won’t say which category I fall into, though.

Have you ever missed someone so much you feel the missing envelops you, squeezes you so tightly that your eyes “run”?  That’s one of the dues one pays for caring and loving another.  “If you miss them, it means you were lucky; lucky enough to have had someone special in your life, someone worth missing.”

LITTLE TIDBITS:   Hypnagogia is the state in between being awake and asleep.  Many blood sucking insects with governmental affiliation are called “poly-tics”.

“Who you are is not as important as what you are.”

You know it is time to get back to the gym when...  1. You try to do a few pushups and discover that certain body parts refuse to leave the floor.  2. Your children look through your wedding album and want to know who mom's first husband was.  3. You get winded just saying the words "10 kilometer run".  4. You analyze your body honestly and decide what you should develop first is your sense of humor.  5. You step on a talking scale and it says, "Come back when you are alone".  6.  Your doctor doesn’t find it funny when he tells you you’re out of shape and you tell him, “Round is a shape.  I am round.”  6.  The staff at Ben and Jerry’s has named an ice cream after you.  7.  You go to Dairy Queen and they know your order before you give it. 

Have you ever just waved at someone you didn’t know just to wave at them?  I have because I know they’re going to spend the rest of the day trying to think how they know me.  ‘Makes me laugh every time.

I was looking in the phone book for a list of “podiatrists.”  The next specialty entry was “proctologists.”  How interesting the correlation of the placement of the two.

I saw a sign the other day.  It showed the sun shining brightly, a dog in a car and the windows were rolled up.  The sign said, “FRIENDS DON’T MAKE FRIENDS WAIT IN HOT CARS.”  I wish I’d had this sign a few summers ago when I saw a little dog locked in a car with the windows down only a crack.  It was parked in front of the library I was going to enter.  I asked the desk attendant if she knew who had a car with the license of  IMSTUPD.  She did not.  Around the stack of shelves came a woman who claimed the vehicle.  I told her it was very hot outside and her dog was clawing at the windows to get out.  She told me she’d only been in here a minute and I needed to mind my own business.  I told her our conversation had lasted more than a minute, and she was being cruel to her dog.  I let her know how quickly the interior of a vehicle can heat up in the hotter-than-Hades weather we were having.  She got all nasty with me, fool that she was.  Little did she know I had a friend on the police force who was on duty and parked 5 cars from mine.  I went out, went to them and told them about the cruelty to the animal.  When she came out, my friend was beside her car writing a ticket.  I asked my friend how much the ticket was for on that misdemeanor.  “Here in Illinois it can be from $75 to $2500 and a month to 1 year incarcerated.   The clincher is the judge she will have to talk with.  He is an animal lover, on the local board of directors of the animal shelter, and VERY opposed to leaving animals in cars on hot days.  The $75 will be the least of her worries.”  I smiled.

Brenduhh came over a bit irritated.  I asked her what the problem was.  “Well, Elma told me she didn’t think I was very smart.”  “Why would she say that to you?” I enquired.  “She asked me if I could spell Mississippi.  I asked her which one was she wanting----the river or the state.”   Sometimes biting your tongue is a good thing.
Another day she came over to play SCATTERGORIES, a game I just love to play.  I have a weekly “game day” with my friends, Dianna, Marva, and Kathy.  Kathy wasn’t able to be with us, so we invited Brenduhh.  We explained the game to her and she said she understood how to play it.  One of the categories for the 3rd. game was “About the Bible”; the word(s) for the category had to start with “E”.  We said our answers; Marva….”Ecclesiastes”; Dianna…..”Exodus”; me……”Ephesians”; and Brenduhh……”Ruthie”.  Eyes rolled and Brenduhh was questioned, “Why did you put ‘Ruthie’ when the word or words had to begin with ‘E’?”  Brenduhh thought then said, “Well, Ruthie has an ‘E’ in it; so, why not?”  We tried to explain, but it was futile.  We moved on to game #4 with another 12 categories.

When you sweat, your brain shrinks. When you drink your brain grows.  So, if you’re called “a fathead”, there is an element of truth and this explains a lot.
I took a class on-line about how to read maps backwards; it was nothing but spam.

I have found a new word to love.  Here it is and broken down for you: Zenzizenzizenzizenzike or
zenzi * zenzi * zenzi *zenzik *e.  It means:  Square of Squares Squaredly Squared 

If a concern is too small to be turned into a prayer, it is too small to be a burden.
“When your day’s not been a bed of roses, remember who wore the thorns.”  Profound, very profound.

Smiles and blessings to you for another month.  Trudy J

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